what i’m not going to blog about

in an act of blatant plagiarism, i’m going to steal my friend bridget’s blog post, but add my own woes good story.  sorry b, it was too good of an idea not to steal this week.  but your not-blogged-woes beat mine hands-down.

i am not going to blog about the fact that a water main burst under our brand-new, less-than-a-year-old asphalt driveway on sunday this week.

i am not going to blog about how giant digging machines made enormous holes in my yard… and my brand-new driveway on monday.

i am not going to blog about how my dear sweet happy baby was diagnosed with rsv and an ear infection and was banned from daycare on tuesday and i am certainly not going to blog about how i was then forced to spend every last bit of my remaining sick leave in order stay home with him for the rest of the week since he is still contagious.

i am not going to blog about how much he doesn’t care for his antibiotic medicine (who can blame him?  bubble gum flavor?  bright pink food coloring?  gross.) and about how he isn’t crazy about the nebulizer that fizzes medicine-y steam at him to help with the wheezing.

i am not going to blog about the trapped feeling you get when you look outside to see that your entire driveway is either a giant hole or blocked with a giant digger or three and you begin to wonder if the mailman even bothered to deliver mail to you today and also how in the world you might get to your car (parked at the business next door) even if there were an emergency.

i am not going to blog about how i seem to have also contracted some form of the happy baby’s illness myself and have spent the last two days coughing and wiping my own nose.

i am definitely not going to blog about how mr. happy stuff has been been out of town for work for the past two days and so i’ve been doing all of this alone.

i don’t think i need to blog about the panicked feeling that is pervading my city as our governor tries to push through a controversial bill.

nope.  those are not ‘happy stuff’ kinds of things.  so instead, i will blog about this photo that i found in my archives that i meant to blog about awhile back and apparently forgot about until today!

this beautiful bouquet was from a flower shop that i pass frequently.  one day, i had a few extra minutes, so i stopped in to see what they were like.  i had a lovely conversation with the owner and found that most of their business is weddings and other events where people order bouquets ahead of time, so they don’t normally just have bunches of flowers in the cooler that you can walk in and purchase.  on this particular day, there were a few bouquets in the cooler leftover from a wedding expo they’d been at the previous weekend.  although they all still looked great to me, she said they were so much on their last legs and had been so heavily handled at the expo that she legally couldn’t sell those bouquets.  after a few more minutes of chatting, she asked me if maybe i’d like to take one of those “bedraggled” bouquets for free?  (um, yes, please?) and she picked one out of the cooler, freshened it up with a spritz of something and deadheading a few droopy bits, wrapped it in tissue paper and handed it to me with a smile.  i love this!  the criss-crossing grasses strung with purple beads are just genius and remind me of the word “orbit” and the bright cheery colors were exactly what i needed on a dreary winter day.  what a lovely gesture!

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amazing generosity and a new bag for the happy baby

i have a terrible habit of procrastinating–especially when it comes to purchasing fabrics that i don’t have a very explicit use for, even if i love, love, love them i tend to put off buying any because i don’t know how much i’ll need or it seems awfully pricey to buy and have it just sit in my stash waiting to be used… (mr. happy stuff might argue that this is not necessarily a bad type of procrastination) but sometimes it gets me into trouble.  like when a beloved print sells out or goes out of print and becomes impossible to find.  and then i experience this sinking feeling of (really ridiculous) regret.  i have to say that i’m really rather ashamed of both this procrastination and this regret (i think the only cure would be to completely stop looking at new fabrics, but that’s not likely to happen soon) and so it was only in a moment of panic, after reading this message three days after it was posted that i wrote to my dear common threads friend amber.  she always buys the most awesome fabrics and a few years ago i had been able to make a deal with her to get a bit of the elusive heather ross goldfish-in-bags print, so i wrote and asked if maybe, possibly, she might have bought any of the aqua paper boats print and if she might have enough that i could buy a bit from her.  she replied that she didn’t really have a half-yard to spare, but that she could send me maybe a 5″ swatch, but she wouldn’t accept payment or even a trade for it.  humbled by her generosity, i was even more surprised to open the package she sent and find that she’d also sent pieces of the other prints in the “macaroni love story” fabric line.  swoon!

her generosity has inspired me to not hoard the fabric, but instead to actually (gasp) use it!  i knew my first project would incorporate those fantastic aqua boats into a new daily-use daycare totebag for the happy baby.  a few months back, i’d purchased some chalkboard fabric with the intention of sewing this bag, but i wanted to sew it with the back of the fabric facing out.  i love the loose criss-cross of white threads on the backside.  i might regret this choice later when the bag begins to fray, but for now, here it is, in all its crisp, brand-new glory:

i love that this fabric doesn’t fray (no hemming!), but i did add a dark gray twill tape to the top edge of the pocket and the top of the bag since those edges will get extra wear and tear.  i laminated the boat fabric with iron-on plastic lamination and added a layer of chalkboard fabric to the back of the pocket too, so the boats are easy to keep clean and it doesn’t matter if they get wet.  i also added a little oilcloth to the inside bottom of the tote to make it extra sturdy and easily wipe-able.

chalkboard fabric is so stiff that i think i made some permanent creases in it when i turned it right side out at the end of sewing it up.  i had originally thought that maybe the bag could be reversible, but if it gets creases every time we switch back and forth… maybe not.  good thing i love the outside!  it makes me smile to see those boats peeking out of their windows every time i use this bag (which is pretty much every day).

many thanks, dear friend, for sharing your fabulous fabrics with me!  now to dream up projects for the remaining pieces….

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easy baby egg yolk omelet: a photo recipe

(that’s 2 egg yolks, spinach, and cottage cheese)

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the happy baby & the robot

watch out world.  my boy is mobile!  here’s a fun video to demonstrate his technique:

baby dude & the robot from carissaabc on Vimeo.

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my little star-bellied sneetch*

the latest “boring-shirt-to-cutie-baby-clothes” transformation (i really should remember to take “before” pictures of these shirts).

this time i finally got a good method for the leg snaps.  if you want photos, let me know and i’ll put together a tutorial, but the short, text-based explanation is this:

ingredients–1″ twill tape, hammer-on snap sets (5-7 sets), hammer

step 1:  finish the raw leg seams with ribbing (same as collar).

step 2:  hammer the snaps onto your twill tape, making sure that the spacing is even and that the snap sets will match up.

step 3.  sew the twill tape to the leg seams (don’t forget, one side on the “wrong” side of the outfit, the other on the “right” side of the outfit, so they overlap when snapped).

this works much better than trying to hammer a snap through your rib-knit edging (my first attempt.  too many layers!) or sewing on those strips of snaps they sell already attached to twill tape (my second attempt.  that tape is too narrow and there’s not enough room to move even your zipper foot beside the snap).  this solution seems to be the most sturdy and the most tidy solution.  if anyone else has a different solution they’ve come up with, i’d be glad to hear it!

oh, i also used new rib knit yardage for the long sleeves because all of my scrap knit is stripey or reeeeeeeally the wrong color for this outfit.  i kinda like the way it turned out and it allowed me to get a nice match of the neck trim to sleeves.  and that long sleeve/short sleeve thing makes it look slightly less like pajamas (at least i think it does).  now if i could just get the collar to rest a little lower on his neck…

gotta love his rooster tail hair here!

*if the title confuses you, click here.

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kids book review: tails by matthew van fleet

the happy baby is at the point in his life when he wants to interact with his books.  if they just have boring, flat pages he can sometimes be entertained by turning the pages himself, but often he just gets impatient with those books (especially if he’s trying to delay bedtime).  one book we recently added to our collection has been able to hold his attention for an amazing amount of time (i’m pretty sure i get tired of it before he does every night) so i thought i’d tell you about it in case you have any 10 month olds in your life who need a new book.

the first thing you’ll notice about this book is the touch-and-feel factor.  there are way more textures in here than i’ve ever seen in one of these books before and they’re all pretty fun to touch (especially the big black poof of a tail that you see on the cover which also shows up again within the pages of the book).  i even missed the “spiny” tail texture until about the 5th time through the book (i thought the spines were all just drawn until the happy baby brushed his hand over the page and i heard an odd thwupping noise.  this book also has some flaps, but none of those silly glued-on flaps or flimsy flaps here.  each flap is really just the page itself, folded over, which makes it much more difficult to rip accidentally.  there’s even a few pull tabs that are also much thicker and sturdier than your average tab.  one of the spreads has a pig’s tail that you can swish back and forth with a tab and it’s sturdy enough that i can play a game with the happy baby where he tries to catch the tail and i keep swishing it out of reach (although he does eventually catch it) but i’m not too worried about him breaking it.  there’s also a scratch-n-sniff spot on the page of the skunk.  i’ll just say sniff at your own risk.  i haven’t introduced that part of the book to my little dude yet.  when he gets older, there’s also a seek-and-find counting element to this book and there are some great non-standard animals to learn (pangolin!  bush baby!  tamarin!).  i’m not quite yet ready to let him read this one unsupervised, but i think it might even survive that sort of use for awhile.  the text is short (good for this age’s attention span) and some of the illustrations have pretty funny expressions on the animals.  after a quick perusal of his other titles on amazon i have a hunch that this one will be our favorite, but i think i might have to see if others are in the library… just to see.

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my newest project… a process post

before christmas, one of my knitting friends (the same one who made me the happy baby this monster) gave us this wonderful, magical knitted baby blanket.

i had been wondering how in the world we were ever going to transition out of swaddling him to sleep and the first night i got this blanket, i laid it on top of him instead of swaddling and… like magic, he fell asleep!  it has a yummy weight, but because it’s knit, i didn’t feel like i had to worry about him getting it stuck over his face (knitting has lots of holes!).  it’s made of cotton yarn (easy, peasy washing!) and the pattern has polka dots on one side and stripes on the other.  could this blanket have been any more perfect for us?  the only way i can see would be… if there had been two of them instead of just one.  or maybe three.  my friend was so thrilled by the blanket’s positive reception that she agreed to make us a second blanket, but it might take awhile and so… i decided to try my hand at making one of the blankets myself.  eep!  me!  knitting!  a blanket, for crying out loud!  why not something small like a hat or even a scarf?  well, this project has the most incentive behind it, so it was the push i needed to dive back into the world of yarn after being gone since my undergrad years.  i’d been wishing for a good, portable handwork project anyway, right?

i asked my friend about the pattern and yarn she used and asked if it was difficult (it looks pretty complicated to me!) and she assured me that it was very simple (‘yes, but you’re a knitter,’ i told her.  ‘will it be simple for me?’).  she pointed me to the free online pattern and i looked it over and realized it was just knit and purl (and i know both of those!) but then it was also something called “slip stitch” … hmmm… new stitch.  might be scary.  plus, it looked like there would be counting involved and a pattern i’d have to pay attention to.  i began having some doubts. then some wise knitter friends explained that slip stitch was just slipping the yarn from one needle to the other.  oh.  not so scary then.  really probably the easiest stitch of the whole blanket.  i can do that!

my friend then told me that she’d used inexpensive but really wonderful cotton yarn from hobby lobby.  i had a sense that many knitters would be pretty skeptical of cotton yarn for a blanket and even more skeptical of cheap cotton yarn (this was on sale for $2.44/skein) but whenever i show it to knitters, they finger the blanket and say, ‘this is 100% cotton?  it’s so .. soft!  and … stretchy!  and…. squishy!’  yes, it really is a very nice yarn.  and i’m thrilled that it was cheap too!  (at least that way if i mess up, i don’t feel too guilty about investing tons of money into the project.)  after some needle research, i decided to invest in a set of nickel-plated “addi turbo” circular needles.  my friend’s only complaint about these needles was that they were “too fast” for her… i didn’t think that would be a problem for me.

i got started just before christmas vacation and worked on it in the car and whenever someone else was in charge of taking care of the happy baby while we were visiting family.  it turns out that this simple pattern is actually kind of addicting.  because it’s not just the same thing over and over there is incentive to knit “just one more row.”  and since the whole thing repeats in just 12 rows, it’s pretty easy to set these little baby-step goals (just one more dark blue stripe and then i’ll quit).  and yes, there is some counting , but never higher than the number four and i can usually manage to count that high even when i’m watching a movie (as long as it’s not subtitled or something).

so here’s what it looks like so far:

and here you can see the stripes on the back:

and the only real problem so far is that due to some initial miscalculations this is way too narrow to be a blanket by itself.  and rather than ripping out the first 50 rows i’d knit when i realized this problem, i decided to use this as an opportunity to learn how to seam or pick up edge stitches or something that will allow me to add more big chunks to this blanket to make it larger.  i’m thinking about using some “bee stitch” that alicia raved about here if i can only figure out how to do that stitch (yes, i’ve seen instructions for it online, but so far, whenever i try it, it turns out looking… wrong.) because i think it looks nice and because i love the idea of using bee stitch + something that looks like honeycomb (who in the world thought “spice island” was a good name for this blanket pattern?!) and maybe making my own whole new pattern and calling it the “honey pie” or “honey cakes” blanket.  can i do that?  is that copyright infringement?  stay tuned to see how this project develops!

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spoon oil

one of the hand-made gifts i gave this year was spoon oil. i’d made some for myself earlier, using this recipe and tutorial and really liked the way the product turned out. plus, then i found these cute tins on sale at michael’s and a stocking stuffer idea was born! (i think my favorite part might have been developing the packaging, but that’s probably no surprise.)

it really has the most wonderful beeswax smell…

and here’s what it can do for your wooden spoons (or rolling pins or wooden baby toys or whatever)…

before:

after:

if you decide to make your own spoon oil, i’ll add that i don’t think you really have to keep stirring the mixture as it cools. i did that for the first batch and not for the second batch and the only difference that i can tell is that the tops of the second batch are nice and smooth and the first batch is… not so smooth. it also makes a lovely moisturizer for hands or feet. to get the best of both worlds, oil your spoons right before bed, then let the mixture soak into your hands all night long.

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and yet, another video from christmas

are you sick of these yet?  i’m trying to finish all of them before classes starts up again on tuesday.

anyway, we do not own a dog, but the happy baby certainly enjoyed playing with all of the dogs owned by other family members this christmas.

Baby Dude’s Canine “Cousins” from carissaabc on Vimeo.

i promise to post some crafty projects before the weekend is over!

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kids’ music cd reviews

sometimes it takes a few listens before i really start to like a particular cd and that was the case with both of these albums. maybe i liked one or two songs on the first spin, but the more i listened to these, the more the other songs grew on me, so i thought i’d share them here with you because i think they could both use more exposure.


the first is “fidgety feet” by steve rashid and the woodside avenue all-stars.  to be honest with you, this was a cd i had planned to weed out of the library’s collection.  the circulation statistics weren’t great and there was something about the cover art that i found rather disturbing.  but i happened to glance at the back cover and saw the list of songs and was intrigued enough to give it a listen.  if you like jazz standards (“it don’t mean a thing if it ain’t got that swing”, “i’m gonna sit right down and write myself a letter,” etc.) and would like to have them on a kid-friendly album, then this is one you’ll enjoy.  we listened to this one several times in the car before i felt the need to switch to something different.  (samples can be heard here, album can be purchased here.)

the second is “family photograph” by the dreyer family band.  this album got a lot of really great reviews awhile back, but every time i listened to it, i just didn’t get it.  i kept wanting to like it, but i didn’t have the patience to really listen to it.  again, this one finally got some play-time in my car and i finally understand the appeal.  you know how some bands sort of have a lot of songs that sort of sound the same?  this is not one of those bands.  this album has different styles that range from funk to bluegrass to early radio to piano ballad…. and they’re all done surprisingly well.  but the real gem here is the lyrics.  one of my favorites is this funkalicious song all about the noises in a city that keep a baby awake “you know it’s loud when you turn on the dryer to drown out the sound of the roto-tiller…”, but i also really appreciated the lyrics of “peace and love” (“what you think about becomes you so let’s think about love”).  there are still a few songs on the album that just sort of float past my ears and a couple that i still find myself skipping over (“cutie baby” is cute the first time or two, but then feels a bit manic after awhile), but it’s definitely an album worth giving a few listens to.

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